Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Just Be Happy

How To Be Happy With Who You Are
Everyone in the world, big or small, fat or thin, black or white, can feel somewhat inferior to everyone else. These things we tell ourselves, that we aren't good enough, pretty enough are in no way based on facts. On this page, we will go through simple steps on how you or anyone, can overcome any inferiority they may currently face.
Steps
1. Its important to bear in mind, that every human being in this world is different, no two faces or bodies are the same. Your 'inferiority' as you may refer to it, can also be seen as a unique or individual quality. What makes you feel these things are 'inferior' to everyone else?, if there is no norm amongst human beings, how can their possibly be any form of inferiority?.
2. Ignore what others may perceive of your 'inferiority', out of everyone you walk past in the streets and towns 99.9% pay no attention to how you look what so ever
3. If you have a complex about a specific body part, that being your arms, legs, feet, hands, think hard about what makes them 'inferior' to everyone else, write this on paper if it helps. Seriously think about the logic of these, you're not going to seriously get stopped in the street for having what you think of as 'inferior' hands or feet and etc
4. What is it you fear will happen, upon the revealing of your inferiority to everyone else, do you fear people looking, making comments?. These are all valid worries but do bear in mind - everyone is different. Any comments you receive are invalid and must be ignored at all costs. Its absolutely certain there is something they think is wrong with them too.
5. If you find your inferiority difficult to deal with, enlist the help of a friend. Good friends will help you achieve your goals, what ever that may be. For limbs it may be to eventually be able (for leg complexes) to walk around in shorts. Good friends will tell you the truth, and you can work together on ways to make you feel better about yourself. If you find it difficult to talk with friends, ask them if they feel inferior sometimes, you may be surprised how worried people get
6. REMEMBER, you are NOT alone!
7. If you are male and feel 'inferior' and cannot seriously enlist the help of a friend for whatever reason, remember all of the above, and perhaps you can talk to a counselor if need be. If you have a girlfriend/wife or close friend who is female, they can also help you. Don't reject their help because they are female, they are better sources of information than fellow men could be.
8. Finally, if it helps, examine other people (not obvious staring). How do they react to their body, how to they show themselves, do they have a similar body type to you?, this could really help you reach your goals.


Tips
• EVERY human being is DIFFERENT
• Think WHY do you feel you/certain parts of you are inferior? Write this down, think about this LOGICALLY, talk to friends or family
• There is no normal human being, and no normal framework for a human being, accept your differences in a positive manner, for instance "Yeah, i have big feet, but thats what makes me me!"
• Don't think of your DIFFERENCES as INFERIORITIES, class them as unique qualities that make you who you are. If it wasn't for those things, you'd be a generic, boring clone with no traits
• If you are overweight, underweight, short, or tall to the point that others see you as inferior due to those traits, throw their insults right back at them as jokes against yourself. Not only will you confuse them, you will make yourself laugh, therefore feel better about your uniqueness.
• Accept who you are!
Warnings
• If your inferiority is physical, avoid looking in the mirror to much in the first stages, you will be constantly reminding yourself, and this helps nothing.
• Never refer to your differences as inferiorities!
• Never listen to ANYONE who puts you down
Things You'll Need
• The mind-set to change
• Good friends
• Positivity

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

what u??????

look at the star...look how they shine for u...
on the things that you do.....
huhuhuuhuuhuuhu.....

wherever u are....
wherever u go...
just emotion taking you away...
dont let it crash to you...

remember the first day....
remember the brown yes of you...
i know that i can...
i know that i love my self more than that....
my brown eyes tell me so....

when you want something...u do anything,,,,
u do anything to make it real....
u deny the failness...
u regret on your self...
but u dont have to give up...

Saturday, April 4, 2009

ngoprek iklan partai....kukukukukuku....

pemilu sudah di dekat mata, tapi kok aku masih bingung ya buat nentuin pilihan. emang bener kata orang kalo tambah pilihan tambah bingung mo milih yang mana???? apalagi mo milih partai yang mana...walopun ini bukan pemilu pertamaku tapi tetep ja udaj bikin aku puyeng. nasib wong cilik kalo lagi pemilu gini kan diuber sana-sini ma partai-partai, dikasih janji2 manis bin ajaib biar kepincut....

hmmmmm...mungkin aku bisa nentuin pilihan lewat iklan kampanye tang ditawarkan oleh partai-partai di tipi2 kali yaaaa.... yuk mulai menganalisa mana yang sekiranya cocok buat aku...cieeeeeeeee kayak milih baju aja sie buwk????? weh so pasti dung...kan pilihan kita bakal nentuin jalan kedepan negara kita nantinya mo kayak apa.... betul????

mulai dari partai no urut 1. kalo gak salah HANURA...
hmmmmm kayakna dulu aku pernah ikut essay competition yang digelar ma partai ini deh... ya walopun gak menang tapi paling gak aku dah nyampein sedikit suara aspirasiku buat bangun bangsa ini...tapi kayakna iklannya di tipi2 atau media lain kurang bisa gerakin hatiku deh buat nyontreng nie partai... abis kayakna kaku banget... lagipula ada faktor something yang gak bisa ku publikasikan yang membuat aku ogah buat milih nie partai... iklan yang dipasang di media kurang greget deh menurutku... tapi semua itu menurut aku loh... gak tau yaaa kalo menurut orang lain kayak mana.... is it free right, to share our opinion...even in politics????? kan demokrasi.... ya tooooooo.......????????

hmmmm partai no 2 3 4 aku gak tau...lha ngapain juga ngapalin nama2partai...paling juga tiap pemilu partainya berubah terus kan ????
langsung no 5 ja yak GERINDRA.... nie partai secara historis bis adibilang aku banget!!!!! kok bisa????? pernah lihat iklan kampanye nie partai yang salah satu dialognya kayak gini.... Anak2 INdonesia...bla..bla... AYAH MEREKA PETANI IBU MEREKA GURU... na itu yg aku banget... secara ayah aku kan petani tuuu, trus ibu aku guru so cucok banget kan ma histori aku... nie partai iklan kampanyenya cukup menyedot perhatian, aku berani bertaruh nie partai akan bisa mendulang suara cukup lumayan di pemilu nanti.. halah soksokan jadi pengamat politik kie.....
iklan yang ditawarkan partai ini bagus lah dengan tidak menjelek-jelekkan secara terang-terangan lawan2 politiknya...atau mungkin karena baru jadi masih belum mau buat ngritik yang laen yak?????? wanna choose..,???? eit nanti dulu.... kan masih da yang laen?????

BTW berhubung aku gak hapal partai2 peserta pemilu kali ini maka analsa aku berdasarkan partai yang sering nongol di tipi ja yak.... kan susah buwk kalo mesti nganalisa 38 partai tambah 6 partai lokal di Aceh.... bisa gak kelar2 dunk nulisnya....

continue ke partai no urut 8...PKS....>>>>> sebenernya aku kepincut banget ma iklan kampanye partai ini.... dalam iklannya gak terlalu menjanjikan yang muluk-muluk, simple dan gak terlalu cari muka banget... aku seneng banget ma ikalnnya yang memuat PAk Hidayat NUR Wahid tu loh.... pidato yang diucapkannya ngena banget... tapi mungkin partai ini kurang berani ngambil resiko untuk menarik hati rakyat lewat janji-janji politik.... jadi.....ahhhhhh bingung maning.....

lanjut ke no 13 PKB.... katanya sie partai dengan basis dukungan yang besar dari warga NU tapi masalahnya nie partai lagi dilanda konflik internal... para punggawanya bercerai berai gitu pada cari kekuasaan dhewe-dhewe.... padahal yak dengan dukungan dari para kiai dan warga NU bisa aja nie partai mendulang suara yang signifikan tapiiiiiiii...tetep ja namanya manusia kalo udah gila ma keuasaan yaaaaaa.....gitu dehhhhhhhhhhhh....... maap yak buat para PKB-ers...aku sama sekali gak tertarik ma partai kalian.... mungkin aku hidup dilingkungan NU yang cukup kentel tapi masalah politik kan gak harus ikut-ikutan,,,, i have my own choice...heheheheheheheh.....

trus..........no 23 GOLKAR.....nie partai sie dulunya punya para PNS...yaaaahhhh termasuk makku kali yakkkk.....soal caleg yang diusung sie bisa dikatakan berkualitas... hmmmmmm kayakna bapakku juda salah satu pendukung nie partai deh,,,,, tapi kok rada kurang sreg yak.... kalo liat iklan kampanyenya terlalu kasih janji manis deh...yaaaa walopun ada sie yang idah terbukti kebenarannya, taaa namanya juga partai pemerintah pasti kan bisa klaim keberhasilan yang udah dicapai negara saat ini...tapi malah jadinya kok ngerasa sok berkuasa gitu yaaa,,,,jadi ilfil deh....

huhuuuuuuu capeeeeekkk......sambung laen kali yaaaaa........mo maem dulu nie.......lapeeeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrr

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

nice relax...but bad tempered....

so many thing in my mind today..
but i just want to move...go away from this pain soul...
so hard but i have to do that...or i will fall...!!!!!!
not because i sad or cry...another reason that i can find the question nor the answer...
hufffffff....annoying...confusing...suffering...

here i am stand on my feet face the reality...
yes...you can do it baby....
you strong...crazy...tough...independent...

huuuuaaaahhhhhhhh.....
bingung mo nulis pa lageee??????
yang pasti saat ini kepalaku oenuh dengan pikiran-pikiran aneh yang gak tentu....
capek...pegel...senut2....
campur aduk bikin badan susah banget diajak kompromi...
kenapa dengan aku ini?????

Thursday, March 26, 2009

General Election or Pemuli eh Pemilu....

General Election will coming soon...!!!!!
should i happy, exciting, or just not care...????
hmmmmmm......will my voice give advantage for this country....????
or, just doing my duty as a Indonesian civillian...?????

General Eletion ato orang Indonesia bilangnya "pemilu" dah dimulai...
kali ini diawali dengan pemilu legislaif...ato milih para anggota dewan sebagai wakil aspirasi rakyat di DPR or DPRD,
pemilu kali ini adalah yg kedua kali setelah masa "reformasi total" dalam sistem pemerintahan Indonesia.

pemilu tahun ini berbeda dari tahun 2004 kemarin.
sekarang cara pemilihan adalah dengan "mencontreng" bukan "mencoblos" lagi. hmmmm...baik ato gak ya buat rakyat Indonesia. yaaaaahhh...secara kan orang Indonesia udah terbiasa dengan "mencoblos", bahkan istilah pemilu pun lebih dikenal rakyat dengan "nyoblos". apa sih sebenarnya tujuan pemerintah mengganti tata cara pemilu ini...???????

yuk mari kita coba untuk menganalisis....
1. pemilu kali ini diikuti oleh banyak sekali partai (34, 36 ato 38 yaaa??? duh lupa,hehehe. nah berhubung banyak sekali partai yg ikut so bakal banyak pula tuuuu nama2 partai sekaligus calegnya yg dipajang di kartu suara. alhasil surat suara pun melebar ukurannya menjadi segede gaban, bahkan koran pun kalah gedenya dibanding surat suara. itupun nama caleg udah ditulis kuecil2, tapi tetep aja belum bisa menghemat ukuran kertasnya. nah disini bisa kita utak-atik alasan perubahan dari "mencoblos menjadi "mencontreng". dengan banyaknya partai dan caleg yang tertera di kertas suara maka dikhawatirkan jika memakai cara "mencoblos" akan terjadi banyak kesalahan yang akhirnya malah membuat suara tidak sah. kok bisaaaaa....??????
yaaa bisa lah. coba pikir ukuran paku yang digunakan mencobols dengan ukuran kotak nama caleg yang tertera di kertas suara. hasil coblosan paku bisa saja lebih besar daripada ukuran kotak nama caleg, nah masalahnya adalah lubang coblosan yang tidak tepat di dalam kotak nama caleg dianggap tidak sah, karena jarak antar nama caleg yang terlalu rapat sehingga dikhawatirkan saat mencoblos ternyata hasil coblosannya mengenai nama caleg diatas atau dibawah nama caleg yang dipilih, dan alhasil suara jadi tidak sah. so wasting time, wasting money, dan yang paling merugikan...kehilangan satu amanat penting rakyat.

2. mencontreng dipilih karena dianggap lebih kecil resiko suara tidak sah dibanding mencoblos. dengan mencontreng, para pemilih hanya tinggal memberi tanda pada kolom nama caleg dengan pulpen yang sudah disediakan. diharapkan dengan cara ini tingkat suara tidak sah bisa diminimalisir. cara ini bisa dikatakan lebih tepat sasaran dalam memilih nama caleg karena tidak akan terlalu acak-acakan karena pemilih cukup memberi tanda contreng yang jelas yang hasilnya tidak memerlukan space yang luas seperti pada hasil coblosan.

3. mencontreng dianggap sebagai salah satu upaya pembelajaran politik masyarakat dimana juga bisa dijadikan tolak ukur kecerdasan masyarakat Indonesia karena kalo dipokir-pikir lagi, mencontreng itu tidak susah tapi juga tidak gampang....yah sebenarnya sie tergantung pada terbiasa atau tidak terbiasa ja....

duh ngomong tentang pemilu kok aku jadi bingung sendiri yaaaahhhhh....
hmmmmmmmm.....kayakna perlu lebih menganalisa lagi nie....
ya udak deh....untuk kali ini segini dulu aja yaks....
dilanjut lagi dalam episode pemilu berikutnya....
tetep pantengin apa yang terjadi di sekitar kita...
kita belajar dari sekitar.... dan dari sekitar kita jadi manusia yang penuh kepedulian...

Saturday, March 21, 2009

paradise you will always have

i'll be your sunshine after the rain...
in the sky is turning grey...you know that i am not far away...
sunshine after the rain...
together till the end...whenever your needed of friend...
or shoulder to cry on...someone that to rely on...
i'll be your sunshine after the rain...
is the one thing i wont change...

hufff....it's a nice song...
resembles me on something happened to me at past...
the nice song that give me a new point of view facing the world...
whatever i failed...whatever the mistakes i did...whatever the world never smile to me...
some there a place that someone will says to me..."that song"....
my family...my best friend...and maybe my self it self...

we are not happy just because we want to...
but we are happy because we have to....
sometimes regrets, worthiness, and maybe,,,dumbness...live behind our self...
but the only thing that we must know...
some there out of your reach...will always a place for you to comeback...
yeah...we called it...HOME....

even it's too far away.....
even it's too expensive to reach...
even it's too hard to step to...
home....will never reject you...
come in... and stay... until you can feel...
that....is the best place you can get...
it's the paradise you will always have...

Saturday, March 14, 2009

hiii jijay...

i hate hate hate hate!!!
it's like a big disaster and very annoying...
every day,i have to eat this dust shit!!!
how it can happen???
the cause is exactly in front of my house...
the bad condition of the road front of my house have made me sick!!!
it make my house dirty,even i have cleaned up every single time...
aaarrrgghhh...

but the most disturbing thing is it makes me crazy..tired..angry..desperate..and finally..i wanna kill somebody!!!
yeah..it"s true!!!
i wanna kill the goverment because they dont take quick action to solve it...
they let it be...
maybe,if they live in here,they will know what people faced!!!
come on your honesty... when that you gonna take an action...
we can't wait any longer again...this condition really make our mine out of control...it"s going crazy!!!
i cant live in that condition!!!
i cant accept it anymore!!!
oh my god...when it will end???

Thursday, March 12, 2009

u satisfy me,babe...

hwaaaaa...
it was really a good morning...
akhirna setelah 2 minggu gak bersua,pagi ini aq bisa melihat my babe lagi..!!!
padahal sorena da insiden yg bkin aq cukup utk bteriak histeris..
menjelang magrib tiba2 ja listrik drumahku mati,tp yg bkin bete tu cuma komplek rumahku ja sekitar 6-8 rumah ja deh...uhh sial banget!!!!

awalna sie aq fine-fine ja menghadapi kegelapan itu,tp ko da yg janggal yaaa...
oh emgeee..ntr malem kn si babe maen.. oh no!!! ga bisa dibiarin nie.. gahswat!!! hwaaaa.. ayo2,think..think..cari jalan buat bisa nonton si babe..!!!
ohhww yaaa,. drmh budhe kn g mati lampu... hmmm.. ngungsi ja kesana, hehehe..good solution,briliant!!!
tp..there was a good news, my father has taken an execelent action!!! yupz.. called PLN!!! dan abis magrib akhirna kegelapan udah mendapat pencerahan!!!
horeee...
hmmmm...ternyata aq bangun kecepatan...gapapa deh,daripada kelewat.. dan ternyata it was really a great match...
MU menang 2-0 atas intermilan...hehehe...satisfied bangetz...apalagi ditambah my babe nyumbang gol di pertandingan itu,huhhh puas sekalee...
tapi tetep ja da cerita sedih...
juveku tersayang harus tersingkir dari liga champion gara2 chel"shit" sialan...upz.. maap...
tp, the game must go on..
sekarang aq dukung my babe 100% pokoke...
come on babe..i believe u can do the best!!! lets get the quartupletz...!!!
i know u can do that.. because u are my babe... i luv u,crisno...so much...

Monday, March 9, 2009

nunggu bedug magrib

saat nunggu bedug magrib mrpkn saat yg menyenangkan bwtku...
duduk santai di dpn tv smbil nonton berita sore..
hmmm..kalo seperti ini bener2 bisa kerasa bgt hidup dlm "sophisticated world"...
g harus brada di tempat yg dkelilingi brng2 mewah ato dtoko supermarket serba da utk bs ngerasain "kenyamanan dunia"
lupain aja semua hal yg ngebebanin pikiran,mulailah berkhayal apa saja yg ingin dicapai...ato mungkin mulai berpikir saat raga ini mulai renta apa hal gila yg bisa dilakukan...
dunia ini benar2 sophisticated kalo kita bisa nempatin diri untuk tidak terjebak dalam rutinitas roda kehidupan
hidup itu hadiah dari Tuhan,bukankah seharusnya jadi sesuatu yg menyenangkan???
coz... I LOVE MY LIFE...

Thursday, March 5, 2009

aku terjebak...hwaaaa...

aq ingt bgt...jm 8.30 hari rabu 4 maret 2009 smuana trjadi...mengerikan!!!
and this is the story...
wah udh jm 8.30 nie hrs cpt2 mndi lgsg solt biar g ktnggalan nonton meteor garden...
ok abis mandi udh seger lgsg present dh ma allah... hmmmhh crtna pdkt nie ma allah, hehehe...
assalamualaikum wr.wb... udh slesei nie tinggal bdoa ja... tapi...

DRRRTTT...NGUEEEENG...DRRRTTT...NGUEEEENG...
kykna aq kenal suara ini..ah paling cm lewat ja,kmrn jg gt ko...
NGUEEEENGGGGG...
Tapi,tapi..kok kykna mkn dket y...??? jangan-jangan...hwaaaa...
aq pun lgsg branjak utk membuktikan perkiraanku...
hwaaaa...tyta aq dah terkepung!!! asap putih sdh memenuhi rumah!!!!
cepat selamatkan diri... keluar,keluar..cpt..cpt!!!
pintu depan sdh tak mgkin dlwati..mati aq, lwt mana lg nie...oh y, pntu blkng,.!!!
aq brlari tunggang langgang... pria brtopeng di tengah asap itu hny menatap kosong ke arahku..yg spt org gila bteriak2 histeris..
aq pun bergegas ke luar rmh lwt pntu blkng scpt mgkin...
hooahh...akhirna aq bs terlepas dr bahaya...trimakasih allah...tp da yg ktnggln!!! hp..aq hrs blk bwt ngmbl hpku... allah lindungi aq... kyaaaattt...
haahhh...legaaa...akhirna bs bebas jg dr jebakan asap sialan itu!!!! aq pun mghirup udara kebebasan ini...sampai...
"ehh kmu knp ko kyk anakku ja to takut ma semprotn nyamuk??? msh pke mukena jg lg??" tnya mba siti tetanggaku
hahhh...iya,tyta aq kluar rmh dgn msh memakai mukena dan parahna lg tnpa pke sendal...uhhh becek lg...:-(
aq hanya bs nyengir buaya...
hehehe..."iya mba,abs g tahan ma bau tu asap..." ngelesku,pdhl emang bnrn takut ma tu semprotn nymuk sialan!!!
but..wait a minute.. kykna da yg kluapaan...
haahhh,..nasi dan lauk blm aq tu2pi td!!!! mati aq!!!!
duh gimana nie..???
alamat g jadi srpn nie...
setahuku,mknan bs jd g lyk makan klo udh terkontaminasi asap nymuk..
huhhh...gr2 fogging sialan tu, perutku terancam kelaparan slama stengah hari...
nasib...nasib...hikz...

Friday, February 27, 2009

single happy to happy single

Tahu kn lagu bruna oppie tsb?!?
that"s right... this is what i feel now...
just enjoy to be what my life goes...
hmmm...naif???
or desperate...?!?

there is something wrong if i said that i am happy and satisfied with my life..???
love can come from anyone,anywhere,anytime and anything...
just believe in my self i can feel that my life is enough...
tears it's so precious that i wont to share for something unimportant
happily ever after just like cinderela story does not exist in this realistic world...
happiness just can we reach with acceptance in any situation which have happened to us...
no matter if u alone facing this reality drama,dont worry because just with yourself u can bring happiness come to u...
the only thing u have to remember...
u always have unlimited love from the LORD...
so be a happy single and live on single happy world...

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

silence in the dark

the lamp went out... just darkness around me, why there is no a little light to cheer up my night??
who has to blame???
my father??because he was late to pay the bill?? i think not...
the PLN?? it can be...
it has been for 3 days, my night became dark...
alone in the darkness...
just a crazy think...
ok...the dark princess...
but..darkness give me a peace... to runaway from a scary face of life...
i am not a strong girl,who can do anything to reach my dream...
i just a stupid girl who is trying to be strong by lived in my dream...
and darkness has completed my dream...
and maybe i should to thank of it...

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

voiaaaaaaaaaa

welcome 2 my blog
start from here to the world of peace...
enjoy your reading and posting...
hope it will meaningful...